But the most helpful stuff I know about elders is what I’ve seen. For the past 18 years (and before that), I’ve had a front row seat to witness how a true shepherd serves. I’ve seen anointing, praying, tears of joy, tears of grief, compassion, forgiveness, confrontation, and peace-making. I’ve seen the stray person pursued and loved. I’ve seen strong disagreements meet in mutual commitment and prayer.

How about you? Could you tell about a time — because there is a power in anecdotes! — when you saw real shepherding in action? (I have in mind those who are formally designated shepherds/elders by the church, though you may prefer to speak of someone who is an informal shepherd in your life or in your church’s body life.)