Archive for February, 2006

Sunday, February 19

As I sit here in my office praying over this text that won’t let me go–Matthew 5:43-48–I remember these words of William Willimon:

‘The Trouble with you preachers is that you are always talking about something so far removed from my world, where I really live, as to be incomprehensible. Keep your sermons close to the real world,’ he said to me as we shook hands at the church door.

“I turned his criticism into a homiletical compliment. Where did he get the idea that a preacher ought to defer to ‘my world’? Most good sermons have a quarrel with popular definitions of ‘the real world.’ I ought not simply to address the world where people currently reside. Rather, I ought to move their citizenship to a new world.”

Breakfast With Bono

Several years I went to the National Prayer Breakfast. It was a good experience, but there was nothing there that year quite like Bono’s prophetic words this year.

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Thanks to a reader of this blog, there will be Krispy Kreme donuts at our 8:30 class Monday morning at the ACU lectureship. Greg Kendall-Ball, Travis Stanley, and I are teaching a class called “Blogging Isn’t a Dirty Word.”

We’d love for you to come, but please know that it is BYOM. (Bring your own milk. We’ll have the donuts.)

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Here’s your warning: Sheryl Thomas is singing “A Living Prayer” at the very beginning of our service. Don’t be late!

Here’s the Sunday assembly order:

“A Living Prayer” (zoe)
The Lord’s Prayer
“How Great Is Our God”
“We Will Worship You”
“Ancient of Days”
“Blessed Be Your Name”

“You Were There” (zoe)
Communion thoughts and prayers: Clint and Alana Logue
“The Bread Has Been Broken”
“Mighty Is the Power of the Cross”

Family Concerns
Pastoral Prayer
“Come Ye Sinners, Poor and Needy”
Message (Matthew 5:43-48)
“Lord, Reign in Me”
“I Belong to Jesus”
Benediction

Running

I’ve always been a runner.

I’ve enjoyed both jogging with friends (thousands of miles with Leon in the Searcy days) and training alone in early morning hours. I’ve had fun with 5Ks, 10Ks, and marathons. All right, “fun” is a bit too strong a word for the marathons. But the overall experiences were fun. (Who wouldn’t like running 26 miles through all five boroughs of NYC?)

One year I set these goals: to run under a 19-minute 5K, under a 39-minute 10K, and under a 3:15 marathon to quality for Boston–all goals which I barely met (18:58, 38:18, and 3:14:53).

But for now my calves are goofed up a bit. I think that’s the official medical designation. So I climb stairs at the health club, play hoops with Chris, hike when I’m around mountains, and ride my bike. In other words, for the time being I’m not a runner.

But that’s hard to say. Because I’ve always been a runner.

Does that happen a lot as you age? Are there things that get left behind that were part of your self-identity?

Maybe that’s why our most central identity needs to be connected with being a Christ-follower. Age can’t take that away. In fact, in many ways age enhances it.

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This Sunday I’ve come to a text that still shocks me: Matthew 5:43-48. I so want to domesticate this text, to soften its blow, to make it fit our world better. It’s too outrageous. (By the way, Chris and I just went to see “End of the Spear,” where the text is lived out.)

Can’t wait to have Zoe join us Sunday morning as I paddle in water over my head with these words of Jesus.

Thursday, February 16

Check out www.nomoregoats.com to see the exciting plans of a young Highland couple!

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Good words from Wade Hodges, this year’s director of the Tulsa Workshop, in response to some criticism that’s been raised about this year’s program. I’m looking forward to doing a keynote and joining my amigo Randy Harris in a class called “Totally Outrageous Stories for a Troubled World.”

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One thing I heard Bob Russell say recently that really resonated with me is that church leaders face the constant temptation to spend 50% of their time on the criticisms of 5% of the members. That can suck the energy out of any leadership team!

People who criticize need to be heard. But the amount of criticism and the variety of criticism and the pettiness of some of the criticism — well, after a while it wears people out.

Last night’s elders’ meeting reminded me again of how thankful I am to be part of a leadership team that knows what the kingdom of God is about. Prayers for a mission team, prayers for a young man who’s life has dramatically changed, prayers for a beloved woman whose service has blessed many, prayers for a teenager who wants a family, prayers for a visiting eldership, prayers for struggling marriages, prayers for the hungry, the hurting, and the lost, prayers of thanks.

Covenant Groups

We all know how important small groups are to churches. The larger you get, the smaller you must get.

But here’s my question: what should those groups be doing?

I love the Larry Crabb vision of groups as a place of intergenerational connecting where we engage each other deeply with gospel values. We learn one another’s stories and help each other through prayer, encouragement, mentoring, and guidance.

But these groups CAN be so inwardly focused.

At the conference I was just at, the senior minister said that he upset many in the church by changing the nature of small groups. Formerly, people drove all over the city to be with people they wanted to be with. Now, instead, they are put in small groups with people they live by.

The purpose of these groups is largely evangelistic. You meet with people you live by, and you all invite those who are around you. He said that every Sunday night people all over town see members of his church (10,000 people) walking down the streets to their small groups.

Should small groups grow and divide? Should they stay the same over the long haul to encourage intimacy and shared stories? Should they be primarily about evangelism or Bible study or prayer or ministry?

I know this doesn’t have to be an either/or. But I’d like to hear from others: what’s you’re experience in small groups? What has been valuable? What suggestions do you have for others?

Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day, my dear. Our first date was 29 years ago today. “Through it all, love remains.” L, M.

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If you want to know more about why I think Albert Pujols is the greatest player in baseball (besides sheer talent), check here.

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For today, a classic piece from Henri Nouwen, taken from his “secret journal,” written during a difficult time in his life:

“Giving yourself to others without expecting anything in return is only possible when you have been fully received. Every time you discover that you expect something in return for what you have given or are disappointed when nothing comes back to you, you are being made aware that you yourself are not yet fully received. Only when you know yourself as unconditionally loved–that is, fully received–by God can you give gratuitously. Giving without wanting anything in return is trusting that all your needs will be provided for by the One who loves you unconditionally. It is trusting that you do not need to protect your own security but can give yourself completely to the service of others.

“Faith is precisely trusting that you who give gratuitously will receive gratuitously, but not necessarily from the person to whom you gave. The danger is in pouring yourself out to others in the hope that they will fully receive you. You will soon feel as if others are walking away with parts of you. You cannot give yourself to others if you do not own yourself, and you can only truly own yourself when you have been fully received in unconditional love.

“A lot of giving and receiving has a violent quality, because the givers and receivers act more out of need than out of trust. What looks like generosity is actually manipulation, and what looks like love is really a cry for affection or support. When you know yourself as fully loved, you will be able to give according to the other’s capacity to receive, and you will be able to receive according to the other’s capacity to give. You will be grateful for what is given to you without clinging to it, and joyful for what you can give without bragging about it. You will be a free person, free to love.” (The Inner Voice of Love)

Interview With Jerry Taylor

Today I’m interviewing Jerry Taylor, a member of the Bible faculty at ACU and the new associate preaching minister for Highland. How can I say this simply? THE GUY CAN PREACH. In fact, he’s giving a keynote address this year at the North American Christian Convention (the annual gathering of leaders of the Christian Churches).

Jerry, would you tell us a little about the New Wineskins Retreat that you helped start? How did it begin?

The New Wineskins Retreat came into being as a result of an initial meeting of several young African American ministers gathered together to prayerfully discern as clearly as we could God’s direction for leadership in our generation. Most, if not all in attendance, were those who had been marginalized by the power structure of African American churches of Christ because of views we had publicly espoused or because of questions we had raised in honest evaluation and critique of our religious heritage. There were no existing public forums within African American churches of Christ that provided an open environment that welcomed or embraced the thinking and questioning minds in our fellowship. Many of us had gone to graduate schools that trained us in the area of critical thinking. We soon discovered that our national church viewed critical thinking and evaluation of long standing cherished doctrinal beliefs and practices as being heretical and blasphemous. We received the message loud and clear that such attempts to lead people into rethinking, questioning and evaluating their socially inherited religious belief system would be veiwed, exposed and treated as a threat to the core identity of African American churches of Christ. We were often the subject of brotherhood web sites, books, letters, emails, and publications. We were made to feel unwelcomed and unwanted at the national events of African American churches of Christ. More and more we felt like outcasts that had been unofficially withdrawn from and rejected. It was as though the most trained ministers among African American churches of Christ had become a colony of lepers evicted from their own community of faith and relocated to an emotional location of isolation.

What are its purposes?

The purpose of the retreat is to create a safe and welcoming place where ministers and church leaders can come without hidden agendas and find encouragement, spiritual nurture and fellowship. Our intention is to serve as a non-threatening environment wherein persecuted church leaders in our fellowship can experience spiritual formation as well as intellectual stimulation. The New Wineskins Retreat is a City of Refuge for the persecuted who speak prophetically about the legalistic dogmatism that runs rampantly throughout our national fellowship. The retreat serves as a haven of hope for those who feel the only option they have is to totally disconnect from churches of Christ. It serves as one place within the fellowship of African American churches of Christ that people who engage in critical thinking and sound reasoning can feel at home. The retreat started out as predominantly African American men in 2000. Since then we have sought to become more racially and gender inclusive. This year’s retreat at Pepperdine will have all women presenters who will speak for themselves to a majority male audience. We hope that the retreat will serve as a mechanism in the creation of a genuine annual fellowship that will model for the churches of Christ both black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Native American, etc. what the body of Christ should look like. We believe that the retreat is a national event that serves as a good starting point for leaders within churches of Christ to experience at a spiritual and intuitive level a small community given to the practice of authentic racial and gender harmony.

Have you seen any progress in race relations within Churches of Christ?

I have seen a greater degree of mixing and mingling on a superficial or social level. We have made some progress in that we are finding it safe to be in one another’s physical company. The challenge before us is to progress beyond the physical realm of relating. We are now called to progress into the area of spiritual intimacy and soul connection at a spiritual, emotional, and intuitive level with those who are racially different from ourselves. In order to genuinely relate racially we all must be willing to die to the lordship of our race and cultural conditioning. We cannot serve two masters, we cannot serve both God and race/culture. It will not be until we are connected to one another in Christ at the level of soul that we will no longer separate from each other on the barren grounds of race.

I think we have made some progress in that we are now committed to what Peter Senge calls the “espoused theory.” The social and political climate in our nation makes it safe for us to publicly espouse the theory of racial harmony within churches of Christ. Senge makes it clear that the “espoused theory” is very different from the actual “theory in use.” He maintains that it is the actual “theory in use” that governs our interactions with other people, and not the “espoused theory.” It is the split between “espoused theory” and “theory in use” that tempts us towards hypocrisy. We are tempted to preach, teach and sing about a theory of racial harmony and inclusion while simultaneously racially conducting ourselves according to a theory that is totally contrary to the one we espouse.

How can readers assist the goals of New Wineskins?

We meet annually. Many of the participants are working with small ministries that they have started in an attempt to plant healthy congregations. Their small struggling congregations are unable to send them to the retreat. Many of them, including the retreat presenters, have attended the retreat at their own expense. We are forever thankful to the Richland Hills church of Christ for serving as a host congregation last year and for giving a grant of $10,000.00 which paid for the travel and lodging for 50 ministers and church leaders who would have otherwise been unable to attend. We had 75 to 100 people in attendance. This was a tremendous encouragement. We ask readers to pray that we will be blessed with the resources to help others attend this year as well.

Sunday, February 12

Please be sure and find Clint’s comment in yesterday’s blog — along with some of the responses from others. He’s an amazing man of God whose life took a sudden turn in a minor, freakish motorcycle accident with major consequences.

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The “Invisible Children” presentation tonight was convicting. If it comes anywhere near you, please be sure to go. The one-hour documentary was amazing enough, but the ten-minute clip that followed with some of the responses of high school and university students is stunning.

Saturday, February 11

In addition to giving the Tuesday night message at the ACU lectureship, I apparently agreed to join Travis and Greg, two ACU M. Div. students, in a class on blogging. It’s for those who can’t fit into Randy Harris’s class — or any of the other excellent classes.

Monday morning, February 20. Come join the fun.

By the way, I think it would help attendance if we could get ahold of some Krispy Kreme donuts. Anyone coming in from the metroplex that morning?

Travis and Greg, any other promises we could make?

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Don’t miss the showing of “The Invisible Children” tomorrow (Sunday) evening at Highland at 6:00. Get more info through www.acu.edu.

KAUAI: Someone Had to Do It

All abuse coming to me is richly deserved. A pastors’ conference in Kauai?

Those Christian Church guys know how to pick a conference site. In Churches of Christ, we usually go for exotic places like Abilene, Lubbock, and Midland. (Well, there is that annual pilgrimage to Malibu.)

Actually, I think this was exotic even for them. They went there because this is the last year for Bob Russell (who I think maybe started the group many years ago) as senior pastor of the Southeast Christian Church in Louisville–a church of about 19,000. This year is the 100th anniversary of the formal division between Churches of Christ and Christian Churches, so it’s one of many activities planned together.

Building megachurches is no longer a big vision for me. I more prefer the idea of sending out Christ-followers who will seep into every crevice of society as they participate in the mission of Jesus. This may result in large churches, small churches, cell churches, etc.

Having said this, it was wonderful to meet so many of these men and women who have given their lives for evangelism. Very inspiring. (Some of the specific lessons I learned I’ll try to come back to later.) They have built churches that have preached and lived the good news.

We come from different backgrounds, different schools (theirs tend to be Bible colleges and ours tend to be universities), different conferences, different churches, etc. But we have so much heritage in common. One of their ministers told me that it seems to him that they were trained to be evangelists while we were trained to be theologians. That’s exaggerated, of course. But it does indicate that we could certainly use the help each group could offer the other.

Now — about Kauai. What can I say? (Unnecessary note to Highland members: yes, we paid our own way.) Diane and I love to hike together, so we hiked all over the canyon: on the stunning Kalalau trail (with views of the Na Pali coast), to the top of the Sleeping Giant on the west-side trail, to the bottom of Wailua Falls, and on parts of several trails through Waimea Canyon. I also snorkeled a little, but Diane thought the water was a wee bit cold. Against my best judgment (with a touch of acrophia that only kicks in with tiny aircraft, bridges, and some buildings — all things made by people — I feel pretty good on things that God made like mountains), we took a helicopter ride that is one of the most amazing things I’ve ever done for sheer beauty.

We missed the last part of the conference. A 7th grade basketball game to get back to, you know.